Misery Loves Company: Why Fake Friends Want You to Fail

Facebook Twitter

Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Real friends support your growth.

Fake ones get upset when you succeed — and try to pull you back.
Dr. Scott Anderson breaks down the hard truth about the people in your life during recovery:

• Why some “friends” only support you while you’re struggling

• Misery loves company — and needs you dysfunctional

• How to judge people by what they do, not what they say

• The powerful “standing in shit” analogy for cleaning up your life

• Why better people start showing up the moment you change

If you’ve ever felt alone after deciding to get better, this episode explains exactly why — and how to attract the right people instead.

Timestamps:

00:00 – What Real Support Looks Like
02:00 – Why They Want You to Fail
05:00 – Actions Over Words
07:30 – The “Standing in Shit” Analogy
10:00 – Clean Up & Attract Better People

Comment: Have you lost “friends” when you started doing better?

Like if this hit hard.

Share with anyone still surrounded by the wrong crowd.

The Psychology of Life Health and Wellness with behavioral expert Dr. Scott Anderson.

#FakeFriends #MiseryLovesCompany #RecoveryTruth #LifestyleChange #MentalHealth